One of the first things I do when people learn that I’m a sexual wellness coach is ask them how their parents gave them “The Talk”.
Why? Because nine times out of ten, it’s explained and finished with a face palm.
Everyone seems to feel like their parents did a pretty crappy job of educating them on what really is one of life’s most important topics.
Usually, I hear, “My mom tossed a book at me and told me not to get pregnant” or “My parents assumed I learned about in school and only once *very awkwardly* asked if I had any questions. I had already been having sex with my boyfriend for a year so I said no.”
Most women are only taught proper names for body parts in school and have a hard time saying the word vulva, instead preferring to call the entirety of female genitalia “the vagina”, or worse, “down there”.
**NOTE: your vagina is inside of you. By referring to all of genitalia by the only part...
Do you feel like your partner/spouse “hounds” you for sex even when you aren’t in the mood?
Is it easier just to “give in” than tell them how you feel?
Maybe you feel that saying yes is easier than having to deal with guilt or negative behavior from your partner after turning them down. They give you the quiet treatment or act resentful. Maybe they withdraw or withhold all intimacy...so you just go along with it...begrudgingly.
You’re playing with fire. The resentment will build and grow, and you will want sex less and less. (Yes, it’s possible to want sex even LESS than you do right now.)
What will your relationship look like next year, in a few years, if this pattern continues?
Are you going to give in forever, even when it doesn’t satisfy you?
When are you going to be fulfilled?!
Our marriages and relationships suffer because we don’t allow ourselves to acknowledge what brings us pleasure out of...
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